A Young Human Being
According to my dictionary the definition for “Child” is:
“A young human being below the age of full physical development, or below the legal age of majority. -A son or daughter of any age. -An immature or irresponsible person. -A person who has little or no experience in a particular area.”
With that definition in mind Matthew 18:3-4 becomes a little confusing:
3 And [Christ] said, Verily I say unto you, Except ye be converted, and become as little children, ye shall not enter into the kingdom of heaven.
4 Whosoever therefore shall humble himself as this little child, the same is greatest in the kingdom of heaven.
We can’t physically become as little children, and we surely shouldn’t become immature, or inexperienced. And since we already are literal children of God, how precisely does one become “as a little child” in the way Christ directed? As a mother of a little child I feel that I am now well versed (or at least better than I was) in how small children behave, here are a few things I’ve noticed:
- Wherever I am my son follows me. He crawls from room to room in our apartment seeking out my presence. He baps at the bathroom door until I come out. Even if he doesn’t want me for something he still wants to play wherever I am. We should seek to have Heavenly Father’s spirit with us all the time. Unlike me, He doesn’t want a minute to himself to shower; He wants to be with us all the time, and so we should seek Him out continually.
- My son wants to show me everything he has and does. Every toy he plays with gets put in my lap at some point, either just because he wants me to see that he’s playing with it, or so that I’ll play with him. We should want Heavenly Father to be aware of everything we do. By praying to Him over all our dealings and thoughts we are, in a way, putting our ‘toys’ in His lap, seeking His approval and assistance.
- Though he is walking now, my son always grabs for my hands when we go out. He wants my assistance though he doesn’t need it. How often do we pray for help only when we feel overwhelmed?
- Whatever I do, he mimicks with no trace of embarrassment or hestiation. I could rub a sock on my forehead and he’d pick up a sock to try and do the exact same thing. He assumes that if I’m doing it’s worthwhile. We have been given a wonderful example of God’s behaviors through Christ, and we would do well to pattern ourselves after Him.
Now it’s your turn! Feel free to share ways you have seen little children model how we should relate to Heavenly Father.
July 19th, 2006 06:39
What a lovely thought! I love the way you connected childish behaviours to their positive spiritual counterparts. I’d contribute but my brain is cardboard this morning.
July 19th, 2006 06:45
Great examples, Starfoxy. They really helped me focus see how I need to change my focus in some areas to become more childlike.
July 19th, 2006 08:48
My son once wrote an essay in the second grade. He was supposed to write about what super hero he wanted to be. I don’t have it with me now, but he wrote something like:
The super hero I want to be is my dad.
He goes to work every day to take care of us.
I don’t want to be like Superman or Spider man.
I want to be like my dad.
A pretty touching thing for me.
Children also don’t seem to care what their parents look like, or any similar thing. Just love.
July 19th, 2006 15:20
Beautifully written, and concept I have not completely considered in this manner before. Thankyou for sharing.
July 19th, 2006 16:58
My kids:
obey me,
trust me,
are sure that I love them,
know that I will take care of them,
July 19th, 2006 17:20
Starfoxy,
Great post!
I am always amazed at how teachable my children are. I call them my little spiritual sponges. They take what we teach them and just accept it. (Makes for a sobering reminder about the weight on our shoulders to teach them truth and teach them well!) I am a child of God. God has a plan for us. The devil is real and wants us to be unhappy. Joseph Smith is a prophet, and so is Gordon B. Hinckley. The Book of Mormon is true. Death is not the end. And so it goes. These are just facts for them, and they accept them — and respond to the Spirit as He teaches them as well about these things. No questioning (not that they are without questions, but they accept the answers). Just wide-eyed, wonderful faith.